Tuesday, March 11, 2008

looking through his phone

Dear heart,

it's bad. i know. i didn't want to but the old joanne was so curious to know what was going on behind the scenes. this happened last night by the way. we went to a powwow yesterday, saw my boss les, and then went to eat at olive garden. after, we went to the block and planned to watch a movie but it didn't happen because we were both tired. i bought a love poem book james recommended and the sequel to the diary of a wimpy kid. we took some booth pictures and we look really funny. anyway we get home, try to hold off on sex until after his shower but i tease him. sex was SO good- you don't even know!

while he showers i see it sitting atop his dresser. it taunts me and calls out my name. he just got in the shower and i could hear the water. i walk over to his phone, open it and read the inbox. it had messages mostly from me but some from stacey. i got a bit weirded out that she would have a message that started with "new haircut" like who cares about you! but then i remember their daughter.

i close it and lay back down. i feel ever more guilty that i found nothing. oh wait! what about the sent messages?! i got up the nerve check again and there it was. i text to stacey "it was nice talking to you today. i miss your voice i don't know why. have a great day beautiful." blood rushed to my face. are you serious? is this michael and gloria relived? my heart fell and i felt so discouraged. i close the evil phone and lay down. i didn't even have plans to leave or to have him come into his room and find that i'm gone. none of that. just knowing i won't be able to act like nothing is wrong. and then the thought occured to me: he has talked to stacey many times over in front of me and never did he sound mildly affectionate. it was probably for his daughter who he probably texted. he talks to her like that.

then it made me feel worse that i almost acted stupid for something i wasn't supposed to be doing to a guy who deserves better than that.

this heart of mine was broken at 12:59:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

Cast List

Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


    [[ RECOMMENDED ]]
    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

Those Days




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