Monday, February 18, 2008

what exactly do you want?

Dear heart,

you go around preaching that you don't want a relationship and that you're happy with the way things are... but the truth is, sweetie, you're f*cking lying to yourself. you KNOW you want to be his girlfriend. you know you want to be able to tell the world that he's yours and that you belong to someone too. you know you're tired of the uncertainties of the future even when he makes plans to teach you how to surf in the summer to assure that you see him, you know its not enough. even though you're sure for the most part that he isn't seeing anyone else, it doesn't matter. you just want to know for both of you that you're not wasting your fidelity yet again. because you KNOW that you've been too good this year. he deserves it, you know? because of how he makes you feel when you're around him, talking to him, touching him, kissing him, laughing with him, or just being next to him. nothing and no one else is worth ruining all that. maybe you expect him to feel that way too and want you all him to himself. but that's the thing, he already does.

what the hell do you want from him? more? is that what you really want? because what if he can't give more- because of his daughter? his baby momma? his lifestyle? just because he might not be ready right now? then would you really walk away from this? you haven't been this happy about someone in awhile. and even though he can make you miserable, it's only when he doesn't call right away or when he actually is living his life without you for a few moments, which is exactly what you need right now, it isn't like the miserable i used to feel. it's not the intentional hurt and betrayal that people used to put me through.

this heart of mine was broken at 12:00:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

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Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

Those Days




since april.01.2002