Sunday, February 03, 2008

underneath it all

Dear heart,

despite my efforts to mask my feminine tendencies, i have come to realize that i am just like any other person in this world who wants to find love and keep it for the rest of your life. i guess it doesn't matter if i ever get married, have kids, or any of that. i just want a partner in my life that i love romantically, physically, emotionally, and mentally. no matter how many men i go through out of boredom, fear, or just plain rejection- i have faith that there is someone out there for me who won't be in it just to hurt me. some nice guy that can actually make me a better person rather than get irritated of them and eventually taking them for granted.

i don't know if its because he is the only candidate, but james just suprises me sometimes. there are really moments where i don't understand why we aren't together. i have so much fun with him! every conversation we have is this seamless intricacy of witty jokes, daily occurances, or just deep moral/ethical issues. then we're around each other and i literally feel like i'm high. him being around me just makes me feel good and giddy and... well, just happy. i don't know if i make him feel anything close to that and most of the time i try to hide the fact that he affects me that much, but its there.

it's gotten to that scary portion where even though i wanted to, i couldn't just walk away from this unscathed.

this heart of mine was broken at 9:33:00 PM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

Cast List

Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

Those Days




since april.01.2002