Wednesday, January 23, 2008

james version 2.1

Dear heart,

james has seriously become a completely different person this year. like... acting more like he's a boyfriend. he's become very demanding of my attention and time lately. we've seen each other more this month than the three months prior put together.

like monday i was giving him a choice on whether we should hang out that day or tuesday. he said he was selfish and would choose both days. when i came over before chicago, i was a bit tired and he ran to the liquor store for me and got me strawberry milk. he's always checking if i'm comfortable and catering to my every whim.

so i end up seeing him monday because i just came from chicago the day before. he confesses that he "actually" thought of me when i was in chicago. it sounded almost insulting but i knew it was a big deal that he thought of me. he said he thought he should tell me because he felt like he was keeping it from me or something.

so basically we watch movies and he cried AGAIN at million dollar baby. this is the second time he has cried in a movie with me. it's adorable but he's two up on me with the crying thing. he tells me about some relatives that die and how he felt about them and then soon realizes that he hadn't told even his friends how he felt about that. he was all "wow you know me more than my friends." i just stayed quiet cuz i really didn't know what to say. i just love how he babies me sometimes. i like that... and i love that its only sometimes. cuz there are times when i'm trying to get his attention. but not that night. everytime i tried to get up to leave, he'd pull me back to bed. we talked about religion and death and god-knows-what until almost 4, while having sex 3 times. haha. but hey he's quick so there was a lot of talking. i was so tired we just fell asleep and then i woke up again at 5 in the morning and he walks me to my car even though its raining.

and now he calls ALOT! it's nuts how much initiative he has now to give me a ring. i want to call him sometimes but i hold off a little and he ends up calling me. i love it. can't wait for what's more to come.

this heart of mine was broken at 2:04:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

Cast List

Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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