Wednesday, November 07, 2007

empty

Dear heart,

the worse part about purging someone out of your life is the need to go back in order to erase. i was deleting pictures of him on my phone and each one it reminded me of when i didn't know any better, when i actually had hope that there were decent human beings you can meet at a bar.

i don't know why people ruin it for themselves. we had so much fun. and i was seriously non-psycho enough for him where i think i could have put up with a lot. i'm understanding, he just had to give me the opportunity to understand.

on my phone, i usually keep all his missed and received calls and all the calls i've made to him. i delete everyone else i call just so i don't hafto go down such a long list. anyway, i put DELETE ALL and of course it asks me if i REALLY want to do that. i start thinking to myself, do i? although i know i made the right decision, i second guess just seeing him one more time or even playing along for a little while to catch him in a lie. i guess that would just lead to more trouble. i seem to get caught up in pointless agendas because of my boredom. i find my boredom quite dangerous actually. anyway, so i finally press YES i want to delete all... and the saddest thing happened: the word EMPTY popped up with a warning exclamation sign... it really made me think.

this heart of mine was broken at 9:41:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

Cast List

Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


    [[ RECOMMENDED ]]
    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

Those Days




since april.01.2002