Wednesday, October 17, 2007

not tonight

Dear heart,

i don't know what it is but when i don't get immediate reponses for texts or calls to james- i start having minor panic attacks where i swear he's changed his mind about me. but i've played it cool and never let him see how unglued i get. and of course, eventually he calls and soothes all my worries giving me more evidence at how truly paranoid i can be for no reason. it is anty day today so i was kinda mopey with her because he hadn't called me back yet. then he calls me while we're at ross and i guess he's had a looooong day at work. we joke about random things and i kinda wanted to stay on the phone but i didn't want to be rude so i asked if i could just call him later. and he said definitely. it turns out i JUST got done right now watching legally blonde the musical with anty and he doesn't pick up because he's probably already sleeping. i know he has work at 4:30 in the morning and i'm sure he usually stays up till 12 when i make him lose track of time talking to me.

i remember we were talking about how we noticed right after we got off the phone that we talked for 3 hours when it seemed so much less. it's funny how he brought it up and was surprised to find i knew exactly what he meant. i miss our nightly chat. i know its only been 2 days in a row but i was looking forward to 3 in a row. i don't regret spending all that time with anty at all but i just wish he coulda stayed up a little longer. i need to stop being selfish. hopefully i talk to him tomorrow and we go out soon... *cross my fingers it'll be tomorrow. i just wanna get this first date over and done with. i feel like each day the anxiety just builds because we have such a fantastic time over the phone and seeing each other is just out of arms reach. it's going to be either tomorrow or thursday but i want it tomorrow so i can see him once this weekend without having it seem excessive. a day or two in between dates is just what it needs to keep it exciting and even have us slightly maybe even miss each other.

argh i guess i should just go to bed...

this heart of mine was broken at 12:14:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

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    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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