Friday, October 19, 2007
checklist update
Dear heart,
i know i shouldn't even be reading that silly checklist i made a bajillion years ago but...
james...
x keeps his promises (heck yes!)
x no smoking (smokes only when he is wasted)
x drinks with me (has been drinking with me)
x drives (with a suspended license but is getting back in 4 weeks)
x 21 and over (25)
x has a job (a lot of money in construction)
x attractive or endearingly cute (HOT!!)
x makes me laugh (all the time)
x i can make him laugh (thank goodness)
x has a car (it's a truck! can you believe it?)
x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me (the stories he tells, he seems like a touch guy but i can't see it. he's such a sweetheart!)
- no hardcore drugs (he has done some bad things in the past but who hasn't?!)
x gets along with my friends (gets along with brenda but hasn't met any of the other ones yet.)
x can get jealous (he hates when i talk about movie stars)
? trusts me to let me go out with guy friends (so far, haven't gone out with any guy friends)
x honest, even when it hurts (that's a check!)
? can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me (don't know if he'd be into that but i can't wait)
x kisses nice (o goodness yes!)
x does little sweet things (opening doors and paying for things can count for now)
x calls all the time (not ALL the time which is actually what is keeping me really interested)
x has a cell phone (which he always picks up the phone even to tell me he's busy)
x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself (he says he wears tag and i told him to watch out)
? parents love me (haven't met his mom yet)
? friends love me (his friend at the bar was quiet but i heard him encourage james to get my number)
x likes seafood and asian food (everthing but squid but is willing to try it again for me)
? cooks for me (not yet but i know he CAN cook)
x let's me be in control (the teasing him is his way of surrendering control)
x is in control (even though i may act like i can tell him what to do, one word and i'd seriously do almost anything but don't tell him that)
- not abusive (he's pushed a girl who was trying punching him at a club)
x i can joke with (always)
x pokes fun at me and vice versa (best part of our conversations)
x loves my weirdness (he actually really does)
x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes (i adore how he dresses. i wouldn't change a thing)
x respect privacy (never pries)
? my best friend (not yet)
x smart (he's always spurting some random information and its so cute because he gets embarassed)
x goes to school (mon-wed nights)
? my parents like him (not there yet)
? doesn't have a significant ex who can come back (didn't get into that yet)
x no girlfriend (asked when he first asked for my number)
x can act mature but also playful with me (he is the epitome of this)
? i can play-fight with like wrestling (not yet but i'm sure we will)
- likes falling asleep on the phone (he "ok byes" me when he needs to go to bed)
x likes my music (he's tolerant of it)
- shy but opens up to me (not shy at all but he admits he tells me more than he should)
? will never cheat (you never know that until later and even then you might still not be sure)
x won't drive me to cheat (he keeps me interested, he gives me space, and he's hot! so i think i'll stay faithful to this one if we ever get together)
x flirts with me (i love how he flirts with me)
? can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on (haven't gotten that comfortable yet)
? let's me dress him or style his hair (he asked me how he should cut his hair but aren't there yet)
? goes to church with me (i don't know)
x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me (YES!)
x publicly displays his affection
x sings even when he can't (so i've heard)
? chooses me over his friends (i wonder what happens when that situation arises)
? would do anything for me (who knows? its early!)
x likes coffee (starbucks last night)
x wears shorts sometimes (basketball shorts)
- not a workaholic (he works a lot but he finds time for other things)
? puts himself in my place when we fight (no fights yet)
x isn't all talk but no action (exactly)
? holds me when we sleep (haven't slept together yet. we've only made out at this point)
? can fart in front of me (not yet)
? can fart in front of him (oh definitely not yet!)
x joins me when im weird (yeah he actually does join me)
x listens to my problems, even when they are about him (he checks on me and how my day is but i haven't had a problem with him yet.
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- wears glasses (don't think so but i'm not sure)
x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films (he's very open to things)
x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house (stanton is less than 15 minutes)
? takes me shopping (he hasn't)
- likes to read (only recently and its a psych book)
? good in bed (i hope so)
- goes to my school (no. chapman university)
- new in bed (not at all. hello? child!)
? loves coffee the way i make it (never made him coffee)
? boxers! (i don't even know that yet! can you believe it?)
x sings in the shower (so he tells me)
? picks flowers for me (not yet)
- british, australian, french accents (he hates british accents)
- watches smallville or dawsons creek (no but i don't anymore either)
? financially secure (RICH) (he makes a lot of money but he spends a lot too so i'm not sure)
? has no girl pals but me (i doubt that)
- rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does (he's always playing basketball but one day i'll watch him)
- a fireman (construction workers are even better. dirty rough hands, rock hard abs, and sweaty torsos! yum!)
x drives a truck (heck yes!)
x wears flip flops (i don't know but do you know he color codes his shoe arrangement
x half white? hehe (both halves are white)
i know i shouldn't even be reading that silly checklist i made a bajillion years ago but...
james...
x keeps his promises (heck yes!)
x no smoking (smokes only when he is wasted)
x drinks with me (has been drinking with me)
x drives (with a suspended license but is getting back in 4 weeks)
x 21 and over (25)
x has a job (a lot of money in construction)
x attractive or endearingly cute (HOT!!)
x makes me laugh (all the time)
x i can make him laugh (thank goodness)
x has a car (it's a truck! can you believe it?)
x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me (the stories he tells, he seems like a touch guy but i can't see it. he's such a sweetheart!)
- no hardcore drugs (he has done some bad things in the past but who hasn't?!)
x gets along with my friends (gets along with brenda but hasn't met any of the other ones yet.)
x can get jealous (he hates when i talk about movie stars)
? trusts me to let me go out with guy friends (so far, haven't gone out with any guy friends)
x honest, even when it hurts (that's a check!)
? can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me (don't know if he'd be into that but i can't wait)
x kisses nice (o goodness yes!)
x does little sweet things (opening doors and paying for things can count for now)
x calls all the time (not ALL the time which is actually what is keeping me really interested)
x has a cell phone (which he always picks up the phone even to tell me he's busy)
x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself (he says he wears tag and i told him to watch out)
? parents love me (haven't met his mom yet)
? friends love me (his friend at the bar was quiet but i heard him encourage james to get my number)
x likes seafood and asian food (everthing but squid but is willing to try it again for me)
? cooks for me (not yet but i know he CAN cook)
x let's me be in control (the teasing him is his way of surrendering control)
x is in control (even though i may act like i can tell him what to do, one word and i'd seriously do almost anything but don't tell him that)
- not abusive (he's pushed a girl who was trying punching him at a club)
x i can joke with (always)
x pokes fun at me and vice versa (best part of our conversations)
x loves my weirdness (he actually really does)
x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes (i adore how he dresses. i wouldn't change a thing)
x respect privacy (never pries)
? my best friend (not yet)
x smart (he's always spurting some random information and its so cute because he gets embarassed)
x goes to school (mon-wed nights)
? my parents like him (not there yet)
? doesn't have a significant ex who can come back (didn't get into that yet)
x no girlfriend (asked when he first asked for my number)
x can act mature but also playful with me (he is the epitome of this)
? i can play-fight with like wrestling (not yet but i'm sure we will)
- likes falling asleep on the phone (he "ok byes" me when he needs to go to bed)
x likes my music (he's tolerant of it)
- shy but opens up to me (not shy at all but he admits he tells me more than he should)
? will never cheat (you never know that until later and even then you might still not be sure)
x won't drive me to cheat (he keeps me interested, he gives me space, and he's hot! so i think i'll stay faithful to this one if we ever get together)
x flirts with me (i love how he flirts with me)
? can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on (haven't gotten that comfortable yet)
? let's me dress him or style his hair (he asked me how he should cut his hair but aren't there yet)
? goes to church with me (i don't know)
x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me (YES!)
x publicly displays his affection
x sings even when he can't (so i've heard)
? chooses me over his friends (i wonder what happens when that situation arises)
? would do anything for me (who knows? its early!)
x likes coffee (starbucks last night)
x wears shorts sometimes (basketball shorts)
- not a workaholic (he works a lot but he finds time for other things)
? puts himself in my place when we fight (no fights yet)
x isn't all talk but no action (exactly)
? holds me when we sleep (haven't slept together yet. we've only made out at this point)
? can fart in front of me (not yet)
? can fart in front of him (oh definitely not yet!)
x joins me when im weird (yeah he actually does join me)
x listens to my problems, even when they are about him (he checks on me and how my day is but i haven't had a problem with him yet.
[[ RECOMMENDED ]]
- wears glasses (don't think so but i'm not sure)
x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films (he's very open to things)
x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house (stanton is less than 15 minutes)
? takes me shopping (he hasn't)
- likes to read (only recently and its a psych book)
? good in bed (i hope so)
- goes to my school (no. chapman university)
- new in bed (not at all. hello? child!)
? loves coffee the way i make it (never made him coffee)
? boxers! (i don't even know that yet! can you believe it?)
x sings in the shower (so he tells me)
? picks flowers for me (not yet)
- british, australian, french accents (he hates british accents)
- watches smallville or dawsons creek (no but i don't anymore either)
? financially secure (RICH) (he makes a lot of money but he spends a lot too so i'm not sure)
? has no girl pals but me (i doubt that)
- rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does (he's always playing basketball but one day i'll watch him)
- a fireman (construction workers are even better. dirty rough hands, rock hard abs, and sweaty torsos! yum!)
x drives a truck (heck yes!)
x wears flip flops (i don't know but do you know he color codes his shoe arrangement
x half white? hehe (both halves are white)
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