Monday, February 05, 2007

not-talking-about-things works

Dear heart,

i think vince and i are seeing each other again. thursday i didn't call him at all. at like one in the morning, he texted me "how was your day?" i told him it went by fast because i was a sub at a school. then the next day i text him that it was scary being in the office by myself. he texted me back with "what time are u at the office till?" i told him 6:30. he called me when i was almost off work but i missed it because i was in the bathroom. i played it cool talking to him because i really didn't care at this point. and i was still a little angry but confused as to why he is talking to me. he tells me to call him when i get off work.

i call and he's asking me what i'm doing that night. i tell him all the possibilites which were a hip hop show, manhattan beach, the pike, or pete's after-show party. he told me he'd call me around 9 when it's free and see what's up. antoinette and i ended up going to the Pike with brian from work. vince kept calling that night! he wanted to meet us up there but i just ignored his call because i knew seeing him might kill my night. so i talk to him later and he falls asleep on the phone with me. i laughed saying it was either because i was boring or he was just really tired.

the next day i had work at 7. i was a little late so i was rushing. vince called me a littl before lunch but i couldn't pick up because i was in the training. he was just wondering if i was at the office because he wanted to stop by and see me real quick. i told him i'd call him when i got off. i finally got off around 4 and he didn't answer his phone so i just stopped by.

it's weird how i think i'd "catch him" doing something if i just show up at his place. but he was just painting all kinds of genius. i sleep on his couch and he gets on the phone talking to some girl about her problems. i get up to go to my car to get m jacket. he thinks i'm leaving so he gets up and asks "what's that all about?"

when i come back in, he told me he thought for sure i was leaving. we sit on the couch for a bit in silence. i didn't want to touch him because i didn't want him to think that JUST because i came over, everything was ok. because it really wasn't. i don't know how we started wrestling but we did and he wasn't going easy on me. i have bruises to prove it! then... we started trying to take each others pants/shorts off as part of our rough-housing. i don't know at what point wrestling changed to "i want you, again." i remember laying there after and thinking "damn! what does this mean?"

on monday, i come by during my break between school and work to his place. we eat and just lay there caressing each other because we're too full to do anything. i didn't want to leave. later that night, i'm looking at some pictures of a dress i fell in love with at anthropologie

this heart of mine was broken at 10:37:00 PM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

Cast List

Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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