Thursday, February 15, 2007

enough is enough

Dear heart,

after work, i stopped by vince's even though he wasn't picking up his phone. he looked nice with a sweater and this button down brown shirt. we spent an hour and a half just being next to each other. i was smelling him then rubbing my face against his face, ear, and neck. then i kiss him all over and massage his head. it starts to hit me that i'm starting to like him a lot.

when 8:00 rolls around, he tells me that he has to leave to pomona. when driving away, i think about what he could possibly have planned to look that good and go all the way to pomona for. but i wasn't going to be that person anymore. that's his choice and that's his life. i don' want to be crazy with him because we're not together and it shouldn't matter. he has no reason to be faithul to me except for the fact that it might hurt me. but some of the things he has said has hurt me more than what he ever could do to me.

i was watching american idol with my sister and i went to my computer real quick when there was a commercial. she starts calling me but just ignore her. i figured american idol was back and she just wanted me to come back an watch. well, she comes into my room and gives me the home phone. i thought it was my parents but all i heard was, "what the f*ck are you doing?" whaat?! was the first thing to come into my mind. he was tripping because i didn't answer my phone, which i left in the living room for not even 2 minutes. i couldn't BELIEVE he called my house!!!

i was cooking and we just got along like that spitting our jokes again back and forth. later he asked if i wanted to stop by his place. i told him i could after my parents went to sleep. i was on vicodon so i was fallig asleep. suddenly i get a call at midnight telling me not to leave yet. he sounds weird and i'm confused. he says he'll call me back. so i ask him if i was still coming over later or like another day. he says later but then says something about not really wanting me to sleep over that night. uh... ok. see, now THAT hurt me. i ask him if there is something wrong and he said we'll talk about it tomorrow. he asked when i was done with my stuff and i was confused. what stuff? i told him i got off at 6:30 and he made a sound like "that late?" i told him i'd meet him for my lunch so we could talk. i ask him if i should be worried and he said he doesn't know. i know FOR SURE it's not a good thing or he would have just told me. i ask if it was my fault and he said no which was a relief, for once. but still i know it's something bad so... maybe he's gonna tell me that he's actually seeing someone else or getting back with an ex or something.

i'm feeling very independent today. i thought if he was gonna try breaking up with me again, i'd be fine and acually be relieved. i mean, he is WAY too damn dramatic. i thought i was complicated, but he is something else. two complicated people will just cause major complications. i was seriously ready for anything he threw at me. i was dreading "lunch time" all day long. i was even thinking that if he didn't break it off, i probably would because i was just SO SICK of his crap!

this heart of mine was broken at 10:01:00 AM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

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    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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