Friday, December 22, 2006

not ready to move on yet

Dear heart,

wednesday night, vince ended up sleeping over and sleeping with me. haha! exactly! OMG! sex was AMAZING! that's the only word to describe it. in the morning, he's very helpful. he helps me take my clothes off, in a non-sexual way, because it's pretty difficult to take off a shirt with a broken clavicle. he's constantly worried about me which is endearing. and goodness i LOVE his voice. he sounds like all calm but in a seductive way.

anyway, i go shopping with anthony and his friend drew. he told me he thought my hat was ugly. haha. geez! i saw brenda there and i was relieved to have some other source of estrogen in the group. it's scary how much anthony is similar to her boyfriend! it freaks me out! we take brenda to her car and then he takes drew home. we go to his t.p. and juan is there. juan was actually being nice to me. i thought he hated me. of all his non-kenny friends, juan is the one i have the most in common with. he's smart, likes going to museums, like's the history channel or any kind of learning channel. i think all his friends love me. they were talking about how annoying it is when girls are at the t.p. except me, of course because i'm cool. it's funny how henry caters to me when i'm there. even juan does things for me around the t.p. "joanne looks cold. i'm gonna turn the heater on." or "you need to take your pill? let me get you some water." does anthony understand to do these things? NO!

i'm not saying i am over anthony. i am still unsure as to where vince is going to go. there was the issue of the girl who called me. she said she was the girl he is seeing. so what happened to her? i don't know but i kind of didn't feel the same for anthony. like i was going to be more willing to let him go if wanted to be let go. you know? but then i watch videos or hear sound clips of him laughing and i realize i can't just not talk to him. i do have fun with him. things have just hit a wall right now that i'm injured. i think he's scared to hurt me if he comes too close. who knows. and the lack of physical affection just changes stuff, ya know?

now vince isn't afraid of touching me, obviously. but is that the only thing influencing me now? physical proof of feelings? because i just need to see anthony smile to know i still have feelings for him. i don't even know if i feel anything for vince.

this heart of mine was broken at 4:36:00 PM
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    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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