Monday, December 04, 2006

new and improved anthony

Dear heart,

how great are conversations with him now! we're actually flirty and stuff over the phone and i feel comfortable calling him whenever rather than trying to give myself these rules and limits on how often i should be talking to this guy. then one of the times i call him, he asked me if i wanted to talk. i was confused. about what? he's like "about your day." so i just started talking about it and asked him about his. the weird thing is that he told me before that he HATES talking on the phone. like he said just tell him what you need to say or what he needs to know and then hang up. but he actually wanted to TALK! it kinda gave me a momentary shock that i had to recover from. but we just talked for a bit. he was really interested in hearing about my day, but then he is always a good listener about EVERYthing that i say. i really like that about him.

dago was kinda pissing me off because he decided to go into work on his day off. uh, i'm sorry i'm not INTO that workaholic crap! when michael was a sales person for L.A. Fitness and i'm sorry, the whole work priority over you thing was SO not worth it. i need attention and i need someone reliable. he says sometimes he has to get off at 10 and ends up leaving work at 12. uh... i'm not into that. i'd go crazy from my already present trust issues. maybe i need to try to suck it up but really- unanswered phone calls piss me off. anthony always answers his phone. dago might be "at work" but i get all suspicious. is he hitting on someone like when he hit on me? DAMN! look at me. already acting crazy with dago. i'm over acting crazy with anthony. things with him are chill and perfect right now. gosh.

i really have more confidence in this relationship. his newfound niceness and almost boyfriend-like qualities have given me some power to just ask and say things that i want. i told him that i wanted to come over after work just to show him my outfit and make out with him, but that i couldn't stay long. usually i would ask him if he wanted to and have so much internal conflict if i should ask him or not, and if that was looking too attached. now i have booked him for tomorrow and friday for comedy shows. that's like future planning. that's what people in "HALF RELATIONSHIPS" do. haha! i love how things are with him. who knew... who knew!

this heart of mine was broken at 3:08:00 PM
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    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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