Friday, December 08, 2006

back to normal

Dear heart,

he calls me again randomly asking me what i'm doing at work. he tells me he can't make it to the holiday party because he has to go to anaheim hills with his family that night. i was cool with that. at least it wasn't some other reason where he had control or choice in the matter. i needed some time off from him anyway. it's just- we've been seeing each other WAY too much and i don't want us to get sick of each other. it's called space. use it. i remember this one book said something about going to seperate corners and be away from each other for awhile. then come together and tell each other all about it. i always liked that idea.

tonight we have decided to watch a movie. i tried to be unpredictable with suggestions of bowling or ice skating but he said that wasn't fun with two people. so we went with the idea we always went with- movie. he wanted to watch it a little later because he wanted to nap first so we were gonna watch Apocalypto at 10:20. i told him i might hafto leave the house and do something because after a certain time, i can't leave my house. "why don't you just come over the t.p?" i thought he was going to be sleeping but he told he just wants me there. i told him i'd bring entertainment and he says "yeah! bring yourself." he's dumb. i told him i was bringing my gameboy advance and he told me to bring it. isn't that JUST what i said? haha

so he "threatens" me that i better shower before i come over. i ask him if he showered and he said this morning. but then if he worked all day... but i do smell a little funky down there. honestly, it smells like vomit. i don't know how but it does! i told him about it too. we were laughing about it. i think... i will shave for him today. anyway, he's teasing me then begging me to please shower. i was going to but i wanted to give him a hard time. i love it when he says my name. when he pleaded, he's all, "joaaaaanne!" it was cute. i could have died but i didn't.

hopefully there will be no brujas over there for me to be weird over. i hope he doesn't bring up what happened last night, why i started drinking, or if(and/or)why i was mad. i wouldn't know how to not lie and not be obvious about the truth with my facial expressions. things like that- it's hard to lie because part of me wants him to know. i think that's why. when i lie, i'm good at it because all of me wants to hide whatever i'm lying about.

i can't WAIT to get off work... god it's draggin! i hope i get my card back. i'm kinda scared if they lost it or something. damn i hate leaving things behind when i'm drunk.

this heart of mine was broken at 4:49:00 PM
0 people tried to mend this shattered heart

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Checklist


    x keeps his promises
    x no smoking
    x no drinking
    x drinks with me
    x can drive
    x 21 and over
    x has a job
    x attractive or endearingly cute
    x makes me laugh
    x i can make him laugh
    x has a car
    x tough on the outside, a softy when it comes to me
    x no hardcore drugs
    x gets along with my friends
    x can get jealous
    x trusts me to let me go out with guy friends
    x honest, even when it hurts
    x can go shopping with me and tells me what he likes on me
    x kisses nice
    x does little sweet things
    x calls all the time
    x has a cell phone
    x smells good- either cologne sexy or has a natural comforting smell which i judge for myself
    x parents love me
    x friends love me
    x likes seafood and asian food
    x cooks for me
    x let's me be in control
    x is in control
    x not abusive
    x i can joke with
    x pokes fun at me and vice versa
    x loves my weirdness
    x wears beach clothing or GQ clothes or skater clothes
    x respect privacy
    x my best friend
    x smart
    x goes to school
    x my parents like him
    x doesn't have a significant ex who can come back
    x no girlfriend
    x can act mature but also playful with me
    x i can play-fight with like wrestling
    x likes falling asleep on the phone
    x likes my music
    x shy but opens up to me
    x will never cheat
    x won't drive me to cheat
    x flirts with me
    x can say im beautiful even when i dont have make-up on
    x let's me dress him or style his hair
    x goes to church with me
    x loves to kiss me, hold me, touch me
    x publicly displays his affection
    x sings even when he can't
    x chooses me over his friends
    x would do anything for me
    x likes coffee
    x wears shorts sometimes
    x not a workaholic
    x puts himself in my place when we fight
    x isn't all talk but no action
    x holds me when we sleep
    x can fart in front of me
    x can fart in front of him
    x joins me when im weird
    x listens to my problems, even when they are about him


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    x wears glasses
    x watches chick flicks or willing to watch foreign films
    x lives within a 20 minute radius of my house
    x takes me shopping
    x likes to read
    x good in bed
    x goes to my school
    x new in bed
    x loves coffee the way i make it
    x boxers!
    x sings in the shower
    x picks flowers for me
    x british, australian, french accents
    x watches smallville or dawsons creek
    x financially secure (RICH)
    x has no girl pals but me
    x rarely hangs with the boys and takes me when he does
    x a fireman
    x drives a truck
    x wears flip flops
    x half white? hehe

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